Meet chubbyxxl.... London, UK. Born in 1977. I speak: German and English

I am single and ready for real, authentic intimacy and fun -- a connection upon which to build something meaningful, perhaps a boyfriend or a life-partner, discovering ourselves with one another one day at a time, taking it slowly and seeing where our companionship leads. I am relationship-oriented. I am not looking for one-time hook-ups.

Sometimes, however, the idea of creating a friendly, safe, clean "boyfriend experience", just cuddling and watching TV and touching with lots of frottage (even if our clothes are on), sounds like so much fun! Ideally, I would find this characteristic in addition to those written below, in a man for a LTR.

I can be focused and serious but I definitely like to be spontaneous and have fun. My interests include critical thought, travel, theatre, music, art, architecture, health & fitness, massage (I am not a CMT), critiquing film, television, current events, and so much more. I love the beach and fun in the sun. Snuggling and cuddling rank right up at the top of the list of things I like to do with the right man. I really enjoy cuddling, my-head-on-your-chest or yours on mine, you-spooned-in front or behind-me kind of cuddling! A sense of surprise and adventure mixed with healthy respect for boundaries can also be fun.

My friends would describe me as honest, an excellent communicator, smarter than most (haha), kind, warm, caring, affectionate, intuitive and an outstanding observer/listener. Others have told me that I am handsome, sexy and attractive. (I'll go with the last two, and I'll throw in a warm smile and great lips).

Special Note: Win my trust and heart first and I'll be the most loyal partner you could hope for. In reality, I am committed to monogamy, and I believe in fidelity. I am looking for the same in someone else.

Many have asked me why I am not in a relationship. I am warm and affectionate. I can be open and outgoing, but I can be shy and a bit guarded, too. Perhaps this dichotomy confuses people: Is he interested, is he not?? In communication I do value integrity, honesty and being straight-forward. I have much to offer in terms of wisdom of the heart and mind (dare I say understanding basic philosophical paradigms), but I probably have less to speak of in terms of actual experience compared to most people my age.

I get along best with down-bear chubby, honest, caring, warm, intelligent real men, daddies or not daddies, who are interested in genuine connection and exchange. I understand what it takes to communicate responsibly and sensitively with care and compassion with regard to feelings, and I am looking for the same in another (albeit he doesn't have to be as verbose as I). I never do drugs and I am looking for someone who is the same. If you are a man who, like me, shows up with his mind, body and heart, and you are single and you think we might be a match after you have read my profile (if you have read this far), send me a message. Email - Web Page

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Profile 1467 - August 5, 2008